I'm a straight guy, married to a straight woman for 15 years. Several years back, I opened up to my wife about my fantasies of her sleeping with other men. I was nervous about bringing it up. Her views on sex had always been traditional, and she had always expressed a very strict idea of monogamy and commitment.
So, I was extremely relieved when her reaction was intrigue rather than disgust. She was curious about it and wondered if I really wanted it to happen or if it was just something I wanted to keep in our rotation of dirty talk. Fast-forward to this week, and my wife tells me she is interested in exploring this. Note to other guys who want this from their wives: be respectful, don't pressure, and give her time to think about it. Your patience might be rewarded! Are any of the apps out there geared toward folks who want to go about this carefully?
Is it possible to minimize the risk of professional or social embarrassment here, or is this just something we must accept to pursue this lifestyle? A friend or a relative or a coworker who spots your wife in a bar with a strange manβor in the lobby of a hotel or on her way into your apartmentβis likelier to cause you headaches than one of your fellow perverts online. The blame, apparently, is the fact that the base of these toys is rarely wider than the widest party of the head, which is pretty damning, and that lubed metal is slipperier then lubed silicone.
So here are the operative questions: Are metallic bejeweled butt plugs safe or not so much? Are silicone bejeweled butt plugs any safer? Are there any safe bejeweled butt plug options out there? Or in a person, at least not in person. As you've surely heard, the conservative Supreme Court majority plans to overturn Roe v. While my wife and I were lamenting the state of this fucking country, she mentioned that nobody ever hears men talking about the abortions that kept their lives on trackβeven though that's obviously a very common thing that happens.
How many guys shat their pants after a condom failed during sex with a woman they weren't that into? How many prominent men knocked up their mistresses or assistants or babysitters? These men need to speak up.
