Needless to say, we had a lot of interesting answers from the ladies too. I liked the idea of a dominatrix who would make me worship her and subject me to punishment with whips, tawse etc. I needed some kind of sexual contact before I could tolerate pain, so after that I started seeing escorts who also did domination.
I now do this once every six to eight weeks. My favourite thing is to be very sexually aroused and then take a very hard spanking. I would advise newbies to send some emails to anyone they would like to see and maybe discuss what they would like to do. I met one particular dominatrix who was a club domme [a dominant who will work at a fetish club] and we got on well — she understood my needs.
I was a regular club visitor and saw my domme there weekly, I would visit her house around every four to six weeks. I usually look for the more mature lady — 35 upwards — but preferably closer to my age or older. I like being spanked and have visited d ommes but I am relatively vanilla and have recently started some experimenting with anal myself small and gently.
Just gets harder when your in your 50 s. I once met a pre-op and transitioning woman which was really interesting and fun.
I originally planned to have my first session on my 18th birthday. That was in and it was amazing. I have no interest in being owned, collared or in a dom-sub relationship. Pros offer the perfect option because I get to play and then leave. I like visiting someone who can take my fantasy and really run with it. I recently visited a dominatrix as I wanted to explore my bi-side, but have a powerful woman there to tell me what to do. Listen to our podcast Good Sex Bad Sex.
