Few, however, have been as significant as the way that online dating has changed. I watched major dating sites become infested with zombie accounts and new ones populated entirely with fake profiles and bots.
Tinder may have helped bring online dating into the mainstream, it also changed the game. In fact, their frustration has only increased, in no small part because the way people use dating apps is increasingly counter-productive.
Quite frankly, the people who use the apps the most are using them wrong. In fact, those misconceptions about how online dating works and the swipe mechanic coincide to make it harder to meet people. However, the core reason why people struggle with dating apps comes from a very common mistake. If you want to actually get matches, responses and dates on the apps, then you need to make one simple changeβ¦.
As absurd as this sounds, getting off the apps and out into the world will turbocharge your dating life and improve your results from Tinder, Hinge and more. Sound strange? The disconnect that folks have is that dating apps are about people. The men who struggle the most with finding matches and turning those matches into dates make the same mistake: they treat it like every other online space. Dating apps are about dating and interacting with people, not getting Reddit karma or sick dunks for retweets.
Succeeding on dating apps means that you need to develop your social skills. The same skills that help you succeed at meeting and connecting with people in person are the same skills that help you find your perfect match on Bumble.
