I just get online, shake my ass, and demand money? No boss, no set hours, no mind-numbing repetitive work? We are, overwhelmingly, a deeply kinky bunch. That's why we do it professionally. But if you love the work β truly, and with the core of your being - few careers compare to the possibilities and self-determination of working as a dominatrix.
Every prodomme has their own lens on exactly what the work is and how to do it well. I encourage you to read elsewhere more on that below and see what other prodommes say about the work. I am often booked weeks in advance, and have the luxury of turning away clients for almost any reason. For the last seven years, I have owned my own private dungeon in a high cost of living area β a dungeon which is larger than my first apartment.
Oh, and nobody works there but me. Seek them out. There are also many many! Seek them out too. You can do this in-person or online, or some of both. Many of us have Twitter accounts; it's the last social media platform where sex workers are still relatively welcome. Be thoughtful about whose words you accept as absolute truth.
On Reddit, it may seem like it's mostly companions or escorts talking, but a lot of it translates between the two career paths. Note: As of , this subreddit is closed to non sex workers. Although clients are also allowed to post in the Sex Workers subreddit , there is some valuable information there. Others are fantastic places to start. Many tenured dommes started in dungeons like that or were mentored by experienced pros.
If you're just looking for networking in the US or Canada, DomCon still shines; you'll get the most opportunities, with the most pros, all at once. Not as many tenured pros go anymore, but a few handfuls still do each year. DomCon also sometimes has lifestyle crossover classes for people considering joining the industry.
