My question is, honestly, is it truly possible for men to actively seek out casual sex or hookups without being creepy? Now, let me clarify some things about this question. How does a man even bring up the idea without ever creeping out a woman? Many women seem to be repulsed by the idea. Some may like it, but only with certain men. Another thing is even approaching.
Ask on Reddit about it, every single possible venue has its detractors. It would be one thing if these were just framed as personal preference, but these always carry the implication that any guy who would do this is probably predatory.
Just about the only uncontroversial venue is Tinder. Some may say that the best thing to do is through social circles or activity groups.
The fact that she even would meet me again is slim to none. She could tell others about how I creeped her out, my already existing friends would be more suspicious of me, any future interaction with any female member of the group would be tainted, I might even get shunned from the group.
That makes me never want to look to friends or activity groups. So basically, how is it even possible for a man to look for hookups without being creepy? First, the woman has to not be offended by a simple approach.
