Over the Halloween weekend, I got laid. It made me remember how much I like sex, and want to do it more though not with that particular person; he was sweet, but our levels of experienceโhe was close enough to being a virgin that he was nervous about everything โwere too different for me to want to go back.
But I'm not dating anyone right now, and I've never been the kind of person who can just waltz out and have people falling all over me. I've never done this before; what do I do to go about getting myself a regular fuckbuddy?
And, since the sex is the point, how do I go about finding someone who's good? Assume that I'm taking necessary precautions regarding STDs and contraceptionโone of the reasons I want to sleep with one person on a regular basis is to lessen the risk of just occassionally hooking up with random people because I just want to have sex, which is my current pattern.
Anonymous email if I've forgotten any important details: gimmegimmesomelovin gmail. I'd suggest that you find a forum online with a group of people who may be numerous, diverse and geographically convenient enough to make hooking up possible. Announce to them your availability along with some way to get in contact with you and hope for the best. It seems to me that people often complain that OKCupid has so many men looking for casual sex that it's not very useful for men looking for casual sex.
For a woman looking for casual sex with a man, though, that would seem to be ideal. Halloween has turned into a holiday for women to decide it is ok to have sex with a random stranger.
