Forgot your password? While it used to be a good hook-up site both locally and when I travel, Adam4Adam has devolved into a site where trolls from Russian bots or fucksters is now very prevalent.
Is anybody else experiencing this? Yes, and in addition to that, they appear to be cracking down heavily on what can be posted in a user profile. Although it does have its downsides I find A4A is the best website to hookup Easy to navigate and the basic, no extra cost membership has a lot of functionality, full size pics, no limits on messages. I have no luck on bbrt plus you really need a subscription to see anything Squirt is also useless As for apps, i prefer grindr to scruff. Unfortunately, A4A isn't the only site that gets hit by bots and scammers.
They pretty much all go through spurts Right now they seem to be focused on A4A. Next month it will probably be someone else. I've had the same experiences. I think every Russian guy is looking for an older guy to spend his life with--lol. But then again, this summer I met 2 guys when I visited DC who were exactly what they said--total tops just looking for fuck. And recently met a local married guy who needs a bottom when his wife isn't interested--which is only a couple times a month she wants her husband!
So, with all its faults, A4A has come thru recently. He was extremely patient and somewhat engaged and played me for about a month before trying to scam me, but eventually all the usual red flags were there. Oh, Okcupid has been over run by bots too. A straight guy from Europe? OKC contacted me to let me know and told me they had restored part of my profile.
After my profile was ruined, i didn't have the heart or confidence to go back on that site and start over, but it had more bots than any i have been on. The site used to be pretty cool, but was messed up when Match bought them out. This right here. I leave it open and if someone messages me cool. I fell asleep! Are you still there? I mean, come on. Yeah, pretty much. I've been on it for years, but seldom get any action. Only three times over the past decade has it really turned out to be worth my time.
