My husband recently started going onto various dating sites and apps. I found out about it once before when a lady sent him a picture of her in her lingerie. What should I do? Thank you for your question. I empathize with your frustration, and I pray that you can come to a solution together and that his habit ceases.
There would be no escape from it. The adultery of the eye is the lustful look, and the adultery of the ears is listening to voluptuous song or talk , the adultery of the tongue is licentious speech, and the adultery of the hand is the lustful grip embrace , and the adultery of the feet is to walk to the place where he intends to commit adultery, and the heart yearns and desires which he may or may not put into effect.
This behavior from your husband is unacceptable and unlawful. It may have arisen from a habit or addiction from the past, and this will take a lot of effort and patience on your part to help him break it. This is a form of infidelity, and it takes a lot to recover from such a thing, but not it is not impossible. I recommend you pray Istikhara and the Prayer of Need for guidance on this matter.
Meanwhile, I encourage you to bond with your husband and take every means possible to strengthen your marriage. Take a free course with us on the spirit of Islamic marriage, pray for him to change at tahajjud time, ask him to go with you to the mosque, and find religious families that you befriend.
Join circles of knowledge and remembrance, and seek to transform your environment. Ask him to unplug more often, spend time with family and friends, and even volunteer together for charity. Although this can be a painful process, it is praiseworthy that you forgive and forget, and it is possible for him to break out of this problem and be a good husband and father.
